When respect within a family is lost and the shouting begins ("You're a dirty Walloon!"; "And you're a..."; and so on), what can a child do? How can he make sense of his parents' broken relationship? He starts playing at war between the Walloons and the Flemish - imitating what he sees within his own family. For now, he plays with toy soldiers. For now. But what we learn as a child is what makes us who we are.